An anniversary card is a love letter with a deadline. It is one of the few occasions where it is socially acceptable to say something earnest in print. Don't waste it on 'Happy Anniversary, here's to many more.' Say what you actually mean.
How to write it
- Anchor the card in something specific from the year, a trip, a hard week, a small habit you love.
- Avoid milestone math ('ten whole years!'). The number isn't the point; the years are.
- If it's someone else's anniversary, keep it warm and quick. Long-form love letters are for the couple themselves.
- Handwritten beats typed for anniversaries. Even if the writing isn't pretty.
Examples
Real examples of anniversary cards by relationship. Use them as a jumping-off point — the best card is the one with at least one specific detail only you would mention.
Five years. I keep being surprised by how much I still want to tell you about my day. Thank you for being the person on the other side of every story. I love you.
To the person I'd marry again tomorrow. Thank you for the patience this year took. Thank you for the laughing. Thank you for showing up. Happy anniversary, love.
Mom and Dad, congratulations on another year of putting up with each other beautifully. Thank you for the example. Love you both.
Happy anniversary, you two. Hope you find a quiet hour today to be smug about how well you chose. We love you.